As you know, I am embarking on a journey. I am moving from Philadelphia to Ahmedabad, India to work and experience a new culture. I'm sure it will be challenging, but hopefully fun and surely an eye opening experience. I've never blogged before. I will try to keep it fun and not too boring. I ship off 17Jan2011. No turning back now!

Saturday, April 14, 2012

Bangalore?

I had a job offer in Bangalore.  27% pay raise, much more interesting job profile (actual R&D), and what most Indians and expats call "the best city in India".  I turned it down.  It was the hardest decision that I had to make in a long time.  At this stage, I don't want to take a job unless I can see myself in that city/job for 3+ years.

There are things I don't like about Bangalore:  it is not hot enough, it rains too much, it is like a giant suburb (like LA without Hollywood or a beach), they don't speak hindi...

There are things that I don't like about India in general:  women are too conservative, people are too much in my personal business, there aren't as many fun/interesting things to do - after exploring the historical/religious/tourist attractions.  Indians are obsessed with malls.  To me, the mall is the symbol of the American suburb.  And anyone who knows me knows that the suburb is the most hateful place on Earth.  Working in India can be frustrating, although there are as many interesting opportunities as there are frustrations, so the job front is a draw.

Ahmedabad was a great place to settle as a first-timer in India.  It is safe and people are helpful.  It is less westernized, which makes it more interesting for a westerner to explore.  Also people are more involved in festivals here, as compared with the rest of India, which in turn I love and enjoy (kite festival, navratri, many others).  But these things don't make for a good place to settle forever.  I think 2 years in Ahmedabad is enough.

I am looking for a job in Mumbai or Delhi.  Those are places with enough to offer for a lifetime of interest.  There it is still uniquely India, but also urban happening world-class cities.  If I don't find a job there in next 6-10 months, I will probably look for job in US.

Thursday, April 12, 2012

Are we in Kentucky?

Today my friend's cousin will marry his cousin.  I am not quite comfortable with this.

Sunday, April 8, 2012

Sorry for the delay...

I know I have not blogged in too long.  I hope I have not lost my audience forever.  I wanted to keep the blog light and fun, but lately my life has gotten intense and serious.  I'm sure my tribulations would have been great reading for an audience, but I was not ready to share my private matters until now, now that they have been sorted out.

As my good friends know, this Indian experience has cost me my job, my home, my husband, some friends, my dog, most of my possessions, and a good chunk of my self esteem.  Do I regret it?  No.  There is nothing worse than living life in a bubble.  After all this, I am so happy.  My future is a mystery, but I love all that I have been through and seen, good and bad.

OK, I will cut the philosphical shit and tell you what is actually going on in my life, starting tomorrow :)